| 必學基本單字
- newlywed
- hang out
- humorous
進階單字
- make a bid for
- acknowledging
- irritably
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Another one is turning toward, is turns out to be a very powerful thing in a relationship.
So, you know, in our apartment lab where we saw 130 newlywed couples and followed them for six years, we discovered that a lot of times when they're just kind of hanging out in this apartment lab, one person will try to get the other person's attention or share something humorous, or, you know, some interesting story that they've heard or are reading about.
- Question: How many newlywed couples did the researcher follow?
- They followed 130 newlywed couples for six years.
- 單字 newlywed couples 新婚情侶
- 單字 follow 追蹤
- We followed Professor Chung’s research for many years.
- 片語動詞 hangout 休息、消磨時間
- 單字 humorous 好笑的、幽默的
And then they try to connect, they make a bid for connection. And then the cameras in the lab always swung to the other person to see the response.
- 單字 connect 聯繫、使有關係
- 慣用語 to make a bid for… 企圖做某件事
And the one of three responses, turning toward which was, you know, really acknowledging the connection. You know, one person might say, Oh, what a beautiful boat that is, you know, going by, and if the other person says, “yeah,” that was turning toward, if they didn't respond at all that was turning away, or if they responded, irritably, “Will you be quiet I'm trying to read,” that was turning against.
- Question: 有辦法列出三種相處模式嗎？
- Turning toward, turning away, turning against
- 單字 acknowledge 認知、意識某事
- 單字 irritably 煩躁的
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